I’ve had a couple of trips this spring that required air
travel. I’ve flown before, of course, but it’s maybe only one flight a year on
average. I don’t particularly like it. In fact, it makes me nervous. It should
come as no surprise. Most things do. I’ve been fairly transparent about
battling anxiety. And because I’m an educator, I wanted to share how I deal
with travel anxiety. Secret: the following tips have nothing to do with
breathing techniques.
1.
I pray for
protection
Let’s be real about flying. The fear of it
really isn’t that irrational. I mean, you have 150 people or so in an
enclosed space in the sky with no means of escaping if something goes wrong. Besides
the flying itself, you also have tons of travelers around you who might
suddenly have their own medical emergency in your vicinity. There’s a lot of
valid stuff to freak someone out. That’s why I meditate on Psalm 91 in the scriptures.
It’s a Psalm of protection. It lists all the things that might cause fear and
highlight that God grants protection from them all. What better promise than
that?
2.
I listen to
uplifting playlists
In the same vein of focusing on my
faith to protect me, I also create travel playlists. During takeoff or whenever
I’m particularly anxious, it’s gospel and worship songs for me. After I settle
a bit, I might switch to my usual fun throwback pop and R&B hits. Music
really does create a mood and you can choose what mood it is.
3.
I track my journey
through group texts
Another way I deal with the stress of
travel, especially when I’m alone, is by keeping a text thread to select family
and loved ones. Airports can be lonely and overwhelming when you have a bunch
of strangers rushing by. Texting my people throughout my journey reminds me, 1)
I have people who love me and 2) I carry them with me wherever I go.
4.
I focus on the
destination
Now, I know common advice in life is to
enjoy the journey and not think about the destination. I think that’s crap. The
journey is uncomfortable. Many moments on it are solely to be tolerated. I deal
by closing my eyes and waiting to get to the good stuff. I focus more on where
I’m going and the joy to be had, than the discomfort that comes with trying to
get there.
5.
I reward my bravery
A final practice I use to cope with anxiety of any kind in life is to reward myself. I’m brave. I deal with fear like a
boss. So much so that most people don’t even know it’s a struggle. Such
bravery deserves reward. Bubble baths, yoga flows, treat yourself as you see
fit. You did something hard for you and should remind yourself as much.
Here’s the thing with people who deal with anxiety. While
you shouldn’t expect it to just always be there, a permanent part of your
identity, neither should you expect to be 100% peaceful and calm about all
situations. Some circumstances might always feel a bit unsettling- like being
enclosed with people for hours 35,000 feet in the air. That may never feel like
a walk in the park to you. But by focusing on faith, friends, and the fun
you’ll have when you get there, you can find courage to get through the hard
stuff. When you do, don’t forget to treat yourself. Those who daily face fear
are the bravest ones of us all.